The Best Dollar(s) that I’ve Ever Spent

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A few weeks ago I taught my son to ride his bike. After too many episodes of running up and down the street holding onto his seat while trying to teach him how to ride, I finally wised up. We live on a slight incline and I told him that he needed to practice coasting down the hill with his feet out to the side in order to learn what it feels like to balance on a bike. I soon noticed that he was actually getting pretty good. But instead of trying to right himself whenever he started to tip, he’d always take the easy way out and simply put a foot down on the ground. It was clear to me that he just needed a little nudge to get over his trepidation. So I made him an offer that he couldn’t refuse.

I offered him a dollar if he could coast to the end of the cul de sac without touching the ground. And after just one try, I owed him a dollar. Next up was learning to pedal. I briefly explained to him what to expect when pedaling without me holding on. I then offered him another dollar if he could pedal to the end of the street. After a few false starts, he rode off and earned his dollar. But whenever he got to the end of the street, he would walk his bike back up the incline so he could start again. So I made him a final offer: ride back up the hill for a third (and final) dollar. After a couple of tries, he got the hang of starting of uphill, and he rode right back up to our house. Since that time, we’ve hardly been able to get him off his bike.

So… The next time you need to teach a kid to ride a bike, think about paying them off. Unorthodox? Maybe. Effective? Definitely. Three bucks beats the hell out of running up and down the street endlessly, and it was a lot more empowering for my son to essentially master this on his own.

R4B is in vacation mode… This article was originally published at fivecentnickel.com.

Published on June 28th, 2006 - 3 Comments
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  1. ah yes, bribing kids to get them to do things. While certainly no harm was done here and it is a good tactic on occassion, it is not something that you want to get into the habit of doing.

    Comment by saving advice — Jun 29th 2006 @ 1:29 pm
  2. Yea, I had my run in with this… and believe me, it works. I told my daughter I would give her $10 per A and $5 per B each semester on her report card. I forgot how many classes they have. Now, I am not sure if the money really made a difference, as she is just a good student, but she sure on top of how much I owed her. My middle child is starting first grade this year, so we will see how it fares with her.

    Comment by Dus10 — Jul 10th 2006 @ 11:36 am
  3. Good thing you got away with only $3. Like saving advice said, you can start small but then they get to wanting more money for their efforts.

    On the whole, though, I’m not against paying someone for doing something– since they will be doing it all their lives.

    Comment by MInTheGap — Jul 2nd 2007 @ 11:40 am

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